We fall in love with people by the way they treat us. We have the power to demonstrate the way we desire to be treated by what we tolerate. All healthy relationships are witnessed in the sunlight. Not in darkness. We have the power within us to allow a runway of time for a person to demonstrate how they will set the stage to nurture us. If there is no nurturing present… one can only assume that one is either far too self serving or, “nurturing” elsewhere.
Treat others in a way that you too wish to be treated. There is an alchemical process to life that involves giving and receiving. And yes, we should give without expecting to receive. Yet there is something to be said about the sheer fact that one should not take pleasure without giving pleasure. That every touch, every caress, every glance and every piece of the body has it’s secret that is waiting to be woke. And will bring happinesses and joy to the person who knows how to wake it. And after every celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other in the morning light. Because when reciprocity is not present one leaves over saturated and glutted while the other is left with a bad feeling of being drained, used and misused. So I ask you this … what have you given lately my luv?… Energetically and alchemically? Do you truly give of your heart when you are not even able to be vulnerable? And are you truly giving of your soul when you only have the expectation of being served on the physical? Because just as I was taught, you are being schooled that even “Gods gift” must learn to be a giver. If there is no pleasure given, if there is no monetary reward, if there is zero collaboration within the creative realm then only a scar of a negative memory will be imprinted from this short journey that was meant to be much more.
For the last two years I have chosen to nourish me (yay). Outside of a few interruptions to steer me off my path, I realized that true love and a real feeling of nourishment would never be found in a dark mind space or, a dark room. It could only come from the nourishment within me.
I love you, my luv
You’ve learned to love yourself
Now learn to love and give to others